小孩子9岁前要学会的25条礼仪

jane

      In the hustle and bustle of daily life, busy moms and dads don't always have the time to focus on etiquette. But if you reinforce these 25 must-do manners, you'll raise a polite, kind, well-liked child。生活工作太忙碌，爸爸妈妈们不一定有时间关注孩子的礼仪教养，不过，只要注意将这25条教给孩子就行啦。
　　Manner #1
　　When asking for something, say "Please." 问别人话的时候先说“请”。
　　Manner #2
　　When receiving something, say "Thank you." 别人给了自己什么东西，要说“谢谢”。
　　Manner #3
　　Do not interrupt grown-ups who are speaking with each other unless there is an emergency. 不要打断大人们的谈话，除非真的有急事。
　　Manner #4
　　If you do need to get somebody's attention right away, the phrase "excuse me" is the most polite way for you to enter the conversation。如果真的需要跟某人说话，最好先说一句“打扰了”。
　　Manner #5
　　When you have any doubt about doing something, ask permission first. It can save you from many hours of grief later。如果在做一件事前拿不定主意，先去征求父母的意见和许可。
　　Manner #6
　　The world is not interested in what you dislike. Keep negative opinions to yourself, or between you and your friends, and out of earshot of adults。别人不关心你讨厌什么，所以一些批评言论最好只是跟朋友们随便说说，不要传得人尽皆知。
　　Manner #7
　　Do not comment on other people's physical characteristics unless, of course, it's to compliment them, which is always welcome。不要对别人品头论足，当然称赞他人的外表是必要的。
　　Manner #8
　　When people ask you how you are, tell them and then ask them how they are。当别人向你问好时，记得礼貌作答，并且也问候他们。
　　Manner #9
　　When you have spent time at your friend's house, remember to thank his or her parents for having you over and for the good time you had。在朋友家做客时要向朋友的父母表达感谢。
　　Manner #10
　　Knock on closed doors -- and wait to see if there's a response -- before entering。进房间前先敲门。
　　Manner #11
　　When you make a phone call, introduce yourself first and then ask if you can speak with the person you are calling。打电话时先讲明自己是谁，然后再找自己想要找的人。而不是一开口就问XXX在吗。
　　Manner #12
　　Be appreciative and say "thank you" for any gift you receive. In the age of e-mail, a handwritten thank-you note can have a powerful effect。收到礼物后要表达感谢，手写的感谢信比发电子邮件要好。
　　Manner #13
　　Never use foul language in front of adults. Grown-ups already know all those words, and they find them boring and unpleasant。别在大人面前说脏话，大人们对脏话了如指掌，并且他们已经厌倦那些词语了。
　　Manner #14
　　Don't call people mean names。不要对人口出恶言。
　　Manner #15
　　Do not make fun of anyone for any reason. Teasing shows others you are weak, and ganging up on someone else is cruel。任何情况下都不要嘲笑别人，这只会显示出你自己的软弱，对被嘲笑的人来说也是件残酷的事。
　　Manner #16
　　Even if a play or an assembly is boring, sit through it quietly and pretend that you are interested. The performers and presenters are doing their best。看演出时就算再无聊也要保持安静，台上演出的人是付出了实实在在的努力的。
　　Manner #17
　　If you bump into somebody, immediately say "Excuse me." 撞到人的时候要立刻说抱歉。
　　Manner #18
　　Cover your mouth when you cough or sneeze, and don't pick your nose in public。咳嗽或者打喷嚏的时候要遮住嘴，并且公开场合不要抠鼻孔。
　　Manner #19
　　As you walk through a door, look to see if you can hold it open for someone else。进出一扇门的时候记得停一小会，帮后面的人把门开着。
　　Manner #20
　　If you come across a parent, a teacher, or a neighbor working on something, ask if you can help. If they say "yes," do so -- you may learn something new。看到父母、老师或者邻居在忙什么的时候，问一句能不能帮手。帮忙的过程中你也会学到一点半点东西。
Manner #21
When an adult asks you for a favor, do it without grumbling and with a smile。当大人请你帮忙做什么事的时候，别抱怨，记得带着微笑去完成。
　　Manner #22
　　When someone helps you, say "thank you." That person will likely want to help you again. 别人帮了你的忙，记得说谢谢，这样他们下次也会乐意帮助你。
　　Manner #23
　　Use eating utensils properly. If you are unsure how to do so, ask your parents to teach you or watch what adults do。正确使用餐具。不知道怎么用的时候就问父母，或者观察其他大人是怎么使用的。
　　Manner #24
　　Keep a napkin on your lap; use it to wipe your mouth when necessary。把餐巾放在大腿上，需要的时候拿来擦嘴。
　　Manner #25
　　Don't reach for things at the table; ask to have them passed。不要伸手去拿桌子上离自己比较远的东西，请旁边的人帮你传过来。

琴缘

学习了{:soso_e163:}，谢谢分享！

AChong

这二十五条，一般成人也难以全部做到。

天比妈妈

我们家都快12岁了，还有好多没做到，惭愧啊……{:soso_e127:}

Kelly

收藏了，先自己努力做到，谢谢分享！

阳光尔璠

学习了，谢谢分享{:soso_e163:}

wangxinran

很好，学习了！{:soso_e163:}

我心已旧

学习啦，谢谢分享！

snow

学习了，谢谢分享{:soso_e163:}

快乐林

学习了，谢谢分享！感觉不只是孩子需要学习，大人有时在细节方面也没做好，也需要学习！